Steele The Spotlight : Violet Voss

Twitter (now called X) is my home online. It’s where I do business. It’s where I meet new people. It’s where I reconnect with those I haven’t seen in person for a while. It’s where I hang out.

A couple weeks ago Violet Voss DM’d, asking if I was going to be at FetishCon. I’ve known Violet for a little while, so it wasn’t a big deal for her to message.

I said “No, but next year I’ll maybe show up at some point, whether it’s AVNs, or a convention.” She came back with “Darn it, I was hoping to meet with you!”

… I reverted into FanBoi mode for a few minutes after that and so would you.

Most of us guys, at our core, are little more than 14-year-old boys. We’re all idiots, waiting for the cheerleader to ask us out to Prom. I’m the consummate professional, but occasionally, revert to that goofy kid, wondering if people will notice me, or if I’ll ever get to say or do anything worthwhile.

I thought about it for a minute, got my game face on, then messaged back. Turns out, she was interested in doing some promo work, as well as getting a few profiles and photo shoots done.

Fair enough. That’s what I’m here for. It’s written into my job description.

I was super excited to talk with her and get some things in motion. We exchanged a few DMs, then emails, and finally phone numbers.

Violet ended up texting and then calling. Here’s what we talked about.

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Jim: Hey, Violet. It’s good to hear your voice and talk with you today. How are you?

Violet: I’m doing well. You know, just enjoying this nice sunny weather today in Dallas. What about yourself?

Jim: Oh, it’s just much of the same. The summertime. Where I am in the Midwest it’s not too hot, not too cold. But, um … Speaking of hot, the main reason I want to talk with you today is FetishCon. I’ve been to Exxxotica, and any number of other conventions, but I have not been to FetishCon. What makes that one so unique for you?

Violet: You know, this is going to be my first ever FetishCon and my first ever convention to attend, which is exciting. I’ve had some requests to attend over the last year, and I thought it would be a great way to network with producers and other performers within the industry. You know, I’m going to go in with an open mind, and I’m looking forward to expanding my modeling career within the fetish community.

Jim: Okay. And I see like on your website, VioletVossXO.com that you have an extensive portfolio and not all of it has to do with fetish type stuff, but it’s on there. So, when we talk about FetishCon, do you have a certain sponsor or somebody that invited you to that one?

Violet: No, I’m not going to be sponsored by anyone this year and I’m not know going to be working any booths. I just got a bunch of requests from producers that I have worked with or am looking to work with, and they were like, “Come down to FetishCon!” So, I’ve planned some things out and I’ll be working each day from sunup to sundown, meeting fans, and doing different photo and video shoots.

I had been looking through Violet’s website, as well as many of the photos she had recently posted on Twitter and Instagram. There was a theme of black latex corsets and one pieces, complimented by high heeled boots. Many of these online, along with prints she had sent me via email, incorporated topless or richly colored bra and panty sets, worn with shiny latex, expertly lit against vintage furniture pieces. All of this contrasted with her skin and voluptuous features produced a stunning look.

I asked her about this compared to the more traditional swimsuit and lingerie styled photo shoots I’d seen from her in the past and was curious if this newer trend had anything to do with FetishCon. Violet replied, “I like the look of latex, particularly black latex, which you’ll see me in a lot. And even in a recent photo shoot that I did, we were mixing latex with a lacy corset. Yes. It’s not your average modeling photos that you’ll see in a bikini, but it fits into my style.”

Jim: It’s a different look and feel but fits with our theme right now. I’m curious, what does that do for you?

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Violet: It’s innovative and exciting. I love the creative aspect of modeling and mixing two different fabrics and looks together that you wouldn’t normally think would be going together. I love the contrast of those two kinds of looks.

Jim: Yeah, it works well for you. And unless you’re dressed in a brightly colored outfit … I don’t want to call you Goth, because I don’t know that you are, but that’s the kind of vibe I’m getting.

Violet: Yes, I do get that vibe, and sometimes I put out that vibe on purpose. It just depends on my mood. I’m not normally a goth person, but I do have that look with the pale skin, dark hair, and some of my features, and I like it. I play that look up quite a bit in photoshoots.

Jim: As a model, are you more comfortable with stills, videos, or what’s your favorite thing? If you had to pick and say, “Well, I kind of like to do that more than the other.”

Violet: I do both stills and videos quite a bit now, but I think my favorite will always be glamour photography. There’s just something that I really love about it, especially the boudoir style. And if it’s got a darker vibe or tone to it, I always enjoy that. So yeah, still photography is probably my favorite.

Jim: And I don’t know that everybody can pull that off. I think when we start talking about videos, a lot of people can do that. But with you – a model, in an outfit, on a set … you can only edit so much. So, I think on some level, it can be difficult to just be a “model.” But from your photos and everything that you that you post, you do a really good job of that. Did you just magically fall into this, or did you have any specialized training? I’d love to know how you got into this.

Violet: I’ve always wanted to be a model since I was a little girl. You know, when I was sixteen, I started modeling for my own fashion blog. And it was just something that I would always see in magazines or on TV, particularly the Victoria’s Secret fashion show. That is one thing, when I was a little girl, where I was like, “I want to do that when I grow up. I want to be a model that poses in lingerie.” I’m sure it was comical to my parents when I was ten years old and saying that. By the time I was in my early 20s, I modeled just for fun, while focusing on a different career path. And, you know, it took me a little while to realize that I could make a full-time career out of modeling. I’m glad to finally be at that point now.

Jim: At what point did you go from the sexy looking bedroom lingerie or bikinis into, you know, adult or full nude?

Violet: I feel like for me personally, it was something that progressed quickly. When you’re in the modeling industry, it’s very easy to go from lingerie or bikini to topless to nude. It’s almost like a systematic thing that happens in a photo shoot. Many photographers, at least the ones I work with, want to give off that vibe of teasing the fans and creating that fantasy. So, it made sense for me to also start modeling topless and full nude and erotic because that’s how the photo shoots and video shoots normally unfold.

Jim: I get it. You’re giving off this constant tease, if you will, of what’s going to be next, except it’s not always in a video, sometimes it’s a photoset. That’s something you would have learned doing stills that a lot of girls who started out doing straight up videos wouldn’t automatically know about. They might not have that mindset.

While looking through the work Violet had done, and then after talking with her, it was apparent she had spent years perfecting her craft in front of the lens, and it’s not an easy thing to do. It’s a defined set of skills and instincts that models must continually develop, but when they reach the point of communicating with the photographer through the lens, they can essentially co-direct the scene without saying a word. It’s all through eye contact and body language. When that happens, it’s a recipe for success and makes the job of the photographer and director immensely enjoyable.

The result … An interactive production that has fewer outtakes and more high-quality shots where the model is literally speaking to the audience through the lens.

Violet: Yes, absolutely. It’s invaluable if you have that skill and you know what you’re doing. I think if you start out as a still model, there’s so much more to it, and you can direct the camera with your flow of energy. And when you get into video work, it’s almost easier for me to do that because I know exactly what I’m doing. I know from start to finish what my plan is going to be. So yeah, having that skill of being able to tease and direct the camera with your body and energy and eyes is everything.

Jim: And there’s one photo in particular that caught my eye. It’s on the lingerie gallery at your website. You’re in a big red chair, and you have on a little black corset. There’s also several on a purple couch or a lounger. Gorgeous photos. So, to get those two photos, what is it? What did you have? 50, 100 prints to choose from or are you right on the money? Are you to the point where you can know to get that pose, that look, and have a keeper most the time? I understand a lot of it has to do with the photographer, but how do those shoots usually go for you, as far as time wise?

Violet: Hmmmm. (Violet laughs softly) That shoot in particular? It’s a photographer that I work very closely with… He’s my husband. We were able to do those sets within about 30 minutes each and there were less than 75 photos in each set. So, when it comes to the poses and stuff, we had 75 photos and out of those, I think there were about 30 or 35 good ones.

Jim: That’s a that’s a pretty good average, right?

Violet: Yeah, I would think it’s pretty good. We have fun with it. My husband is a glamour photographer on the side and it’s helpful that I’m a model and he can photograph like that. It’s like having my very own in-house photographer, which is fun.

Jim: I know a lot of people that would be incredibly jealous of you right now for saying that. So, it’s the best of both worlds for both of you and him.

Jim: So, let’s talk about videos. I know there’s some that are girl/girl. I have not been through every single clip on all your sites, but I’ve also seen boy/girl too. How’s that working out for you?

Violet: I only shoot boy girl for my OnlyFans and it’s with my husband.

Jim: Okay. And that was a big part of my question. Girl/girl is okay, and boy/girl is with your husband.

Violet: I’ve only shot a very handful, small handful of boy/girl. I have more girl/girl shoots lined up in the future, and at all of them I’ve done so far, my husband’s been there. He’s very supportive of everything that I do. He’s encouraged me to start doing more work with girls because I wasn’t as comfortable with it at first, and that has been incredibly helpful. I love him so much and he is very supportive of everything that I do in this industry.

Jim: Well, that’s incredibly important and I don’t think any relationship would work if one or the other partner was not all in and onboard. So, I get it. It takes a ton of transparent honesty between two people for a successful relationship. I’m happy you two have that. That’s a good thing.

Violet: Thanks, it’s something we both cherish.

Jim: So, besides your husband, who are some other photographers or producers that you’ve worked with that have either been really good or maybe not so good?

Violet: Yeah, I work with lots of different producers and photographers and I’m not going to mention any names, just for the sake of staying out of any type of drama, but I would say 98% of the photographers that I work with are just wonderful people. We always have a great time at our shoots. There’s been very few photographers that have not been great to shoot with. So that statistic, of only having 2% bad, is good. I have found that to be a great thing in this industry because you never know what to expect.

Jim: Out of the 2% club, is there any anything that somebody did that was just like, “No, this is not a great start to the shoot.” Or something so bad that you just ended it before it even started.

Violet: There was one shoot when I got back into modeling and decided that this is what I was going to do full time where I was working with a photographer, and it was an erotic shoot. So I was on set, completely naked, legs spread, and this photographer had a few people working with him. I think he had a stage director and a set hand. And when I was looking the other way, the set hand came over and groped my breasts. To put it mildly, that definitely caught me off guard. I had a very harsh conversation with the photographer and the photo shoot ended very shortly after that.

Jim: Yeah. And there’s no amount of money that is going to make that okay. Right?

Violet: No, it will never be okay.

Jim: Yeah, and that ruins the whole deal. When they’re shooting a live scene and the camera stops rolling, but then, um… somebody doesn’t want to stop the action? It’s the same kind of a deal. It’s a job. And if you can’t treat it that way, it’s too bad. There are some people out here that are, you know, less than professional.

Violet: Yes, there are.

There are so many out there who advertise one thing but have very different motives in mind. A model might be expecting a clothed, or even full nude shoot, with nothing else following. If there is a sex scene, it should always be spelled out in the upfront agreements, and if that’s the case, there’s still a protocol of events for that to occur. The model should always be aware and in agreement.

Meanwhile, the sleazebag in question will show up to a set with the intention of having the shoot automatically progress into sex. I can’t count the number of times I’ve been told of this happening, and it is painful to hear these accounts.

What Violet described amounts to straight up assault. There should never be any unwanted touching, groping, or speech that would make a model uncomfortable. Many who have operated like this have been summarily drummed out of the business over the last several years, but … I’m sure there will be more to step in and take their place.

It’s unfortunate these predators are still out there, waiting to catch a model at his or her most vulnerable point, but it does happen. If anybody experiences an event like Violet described, report it immediately, end the shoot, and remove yourself from that dangerous situation.

Jim: But on the flip side, what does somebody do for you that makes it a very enjoyable experience?

Violet: For me, it starts before the shoot. Having really good communication and being professional from the start speaks volumes. When that happens, before we even start, I already feel so confident with the person I’m working with that they can communicate and be professional and not say anything inappropriate. It’s always a nice surprise when those messages come across. Just having simple business-like manners really makes the shoot go well. When you finally get to the shoot, it’s wonderful when they’re nice and respectful in person, just like they were communicating with you prior.

Jim: Okay, so what did your parents have to say when you started doing more adult themed shoots and even full nude. I know your husband is okay with it, but what did mom and dad think?

Violet: Unfortunately, my father passed away before I started modeling, so I can’t really speak for him. But my mother knows what I do and she’s very supportive of it. Even though I don’t go into too much detail with her. I’ve shown her covers I’ve been on. I’ve shown her many of the photos that I’ve taken. She’s just proud of me for finding something that I’m really happy doing.

Jim: How about when you were in high school, college, or even before. Are there any friends that you still have from that period of your life who know what you’re doing? What are their thoughts?

Violet: No, I don’t have any friends from when I was in high school or college. You know, life just didn’t pan out that way. But the friends that I do have, most know that I’m a model. You know, I never go into too much detail with them unless they ask just because I know everyone has a bit of a different opinion on this industry, especially when we’re talking about the adult entertainment side of modeling. All my friends that do know are supportive and find it very much to be a cool job.

Jim: And do you think it’s a cool job? Do you wake up and say, “I’m happy I’m doing this?”

Violet: Yes, I do. I am very happy that I’ve found a place in my life where I love what I am doing. You know, there were a few years in my life where I was working in corporate America, and I woke up so miserable and unhappy every day. So, I am very grateful to be able to say I am truly happy now doing what I do.

Jim: And when you were in corporate America, I’ve got two questions. What were you doing? And secondly, while you were doing this on the side, were you keeping everything like two separate lives?

Violet: Yeah… that’s kind of how I went about it. I’ve always made sure my personal life was private and my modeling life was separate for numerous reasons. My day job was working in commercial real estate and property management. And when I was modeling on the side at that point in my life, I was only doing fashion and lingerie. So, I didn’t have to keep it too much of a secret, but it wasn’t something I was going to bring up in a business meeting or a professional dinner.

Jim: Okay, so sticking with the whole prior life theme, I don’t care what my profile picture looks like. I’m here to tell you I didn’t look like that when I was a freshman in high school. Kids beat me up and stuffed me in lockers. I was a fucking dork. So, when you were growing up, did you look like you are in your pictures now? Were you outgoing? Were you a dork, a nerd? What were you like as a teenager or early adult?

{Violet and Jim laughing at themselves}

Violet: As a teenager, I was a bit of an outcast within my family, but more so in high school. I think it was because I thought very differently than most people that I was surrounded with. I grew up in a small town, and it had the stereotypical small-town kind of mindset. Meanwhile, I loved fashion. I was incredibly interested in what was happening in, you know, the big city. So, I would get dressed up and go to school every day. And the kids at my school thought that was so weird and strange. I’ve always been, or felt, like kind of an outcast and, you know, I’m fine with that. If I’m an outcast, that’s great.

Jim: Well, if you’re an outcast, then you’re a wonderful example of what every outcast might aspire to be. Haha. Whereabouts did you grow up?

Violet: I grew up in Waco, Texas.

Jim: Okay, so you moved up out of there, but you’re not too far off from there now. You’re where now, in Dallas?

Violet: Yes.

Jim: Where and how did you meet your husband?

Violet: I met him when I moved to Dallas. I left for college in New York City. A few years later, I decided to move to Dallas. I’d been back in Texas for about a year, and I met my husband on a dating app and it just kind of went from there.

I always smile during this part of an interview and enjoy hearing a performer talk about their relationship and the different things that make one successful. It’s interesting but it’s also enlightening. I must admit that I’m lucky in this way too. Over the years, like many other couples, me and my girl have had a few ups and downs, but we find our way back to each other, and it’s awesome. All in all, we’ve been together since about 2003 and I couldn’t be happier.

Violet was in full agreement, saying “That’s definitely a great thing. There’s not a lot of people who can say that they’ve been with their partner for that long anymore. I love the place I’m in right now, in so many ways.”

Of the many that I have spoken with over the years, all have a couple elements that make up a lasting relationship and it’s not money or fame. Instead, it’s the simplest acts of being a loving and honest partner.

Jim: So, you’re one of the 1% that had success on a dating app? You should do a commercial for them!

Violet: Yeah, I never would have thought that was going to be my story, but here we are, and I’m so happy with everything.

Jim: Well, we all meet in different ways. So, you’ve been modeling now for about a year and a half. Take me through a normal day in the life of Violet Voss. You wake up on any given day and it’s ______?

Violet: Sure, it’s a little different each day, but it just depends on if I have any shoots that day or not. So, today is Monday. I didn’t have any shoots, so I woke up around 7:30 a.m., played with my dogs, and responded to some emails and scans on my computer. After that, I got ready and went to a Pilates class. And then I came home and had some lunch and got some more computer work done. It’s the end of the month, so there’s a lot of accounting stuff to do. After that, I had this interview scheduled. And after we get finished talking, I have to go run a few errands for some props and wardrobe items that I need for FetishCon.

Jim: Okay, so you’re a normal person, Haha. Back to FetishCon, let’s talk about the bondage type stuff. It’s not like one of my number one thing, but it’s an interesting topic, maybe because it’s not like one of my things … who knows? So, for you, because some of your content has this, is that something that is a real-life deal? Is it a turn on? And are you more of a dom or a sub? I’m curious how you fall into that whole category?

Violet: In my normal life I am very vanilla. As far as bondage, it doesn’t really do it for me in my personal life. It’s fun to play around with, but something I do professionally. There’s so much opportunity within the bondage community and I seem to do it well during shoots. I think what producers like is that I can play the role of both a dom and a sub. So, in my business life, I would say I am more of a dom, and that applies to a lot of different situations, where I have to step up and get things done. But when it comes to my personal and more intimate life, I’m more of a sub.

Jim: And I noticed that about you just in setting this interview up. You’re very matter of fact, you’re very organized and you’re not afraid to say exactly what you think. So that’s good. There’s nothing wrong with that at all. I wish more people were like that. Let’s talk about in real life, with your husband. What’s a real life kink, something that you really enjoy, and you can’t get enough of?

Violet: I love being spoiled and treated like a princess. You know, I love it when my husband buys me gifts and flowers and just gives me that kind of princess treatment. If I had to pick one thing, that really does it for me.

Jim: So, you’re a regular girl who wants to be treated like a girl that somebody loves, right?

Violet: Yes, you could say that.

Jim: So, romance is not dead.

Violet: Absolutely, I like to be romanticized for sure.

Jim: Okay, so we can check that box off, “Violet Loves Romance.” Now, looking into the future and even drawing off things you’ve already done, what’s something that you would look forward to and say, “That’s something I want to do. That’s a goal.” It could be a certain magazine spread, a video, a producer to work with or a director. What’s something that’s on your radar that you want to do?

Violet: I would love to be on the cover of some of the bigger magazines, particularly Playboy or Penthouse. I’d also like to be featured in those or others with profiles or photo spreads. That is definitely a goal, and I hope to accomplish it within the next year.

Jim: I don’t see why that could not happen. How do you, as a model, define that or set those apart? Is it because those are the biggest names or is there a particular photographer, maybe other than your husband, that you would say, “Wow, that would be really great to do a set with them?”

Violet: It’s a little bit of both. Obviously, those are powerhouse names within the industry and it’s an accomplishment to be able to say, “Oh, I’ve been on the cover of Playboy.” That’s top tier when it comes to adult modeling, in my opinion. But there’s also several photographers that do a lot of the cover work for those magazines and I really like their style. It would be really cool to work with them and be a part of those productions.

Jim: I would love to see that, and there are so many awesome publications still around, even after the internet has put such a dent in print media. I think of FHM, Hustler, StripLV … there’s a lot out there. If you ever get on People Magazine or the cover of Glamour, I’m gonna tell people I know you! Haha.

Violet: Um … I’d say, “No comment.” That’s what people say if they’re on that cover! Haha. No offense.

Jim: No offense taken; I was just curious. But as far as movies go, you mentioned your OnlyFans, and you’ve got a couple others that have clips on them, but are you looking to do more on that side of things, or is that even an interest to you? Let’s say if a production cast your husband in there with you or maybe another girl, and it was a legit XXX movie, done by a major studio. Is that something that you’d be interested in, or is just mainly photography and keeping the videos on your pay sites right now?

Violet: I’m not going to rule out anything because I am newer into the industry compared to others. But right now, I’d like to keep that stuff, talking about videos, exclusive to my sites and keep the photography separate. It seems to be working well for me, so we’ll see if that is something that I continue to do long term or maybe go out another way in the future. Time will tell.

Jim: Okay, so if something were to come up and you’re with your guy. What’s the process of you, as a couple, working through that? You know, what’s okay and what’s not okay?

Violet: It’s very simple. You know, we have a very honest relationship, and it just requires a conversation. If we communicate with each other and we respect each other’s boundaries, then we can make it through whatever kind of decision comes our way. And that’s something that I really value in our relationship.

Jim: Okay, fair enough. I imagine much of that decision would be based on stuff that you’ve already experienced or things you’ve heard about. We build on our experiences. That’s a natural thing. Is there something that you could point at in the industry and say, “That could be better. That needs to change.” What’s something that bothers you a little bit.

Violet: There’s a there’s a couple of things that bother me within the industry, and it has to do with how business is conducted. I use my own contracts and I’m surprised by the amount of people who just do whatever and wing it. Before I go on a photo shoot, I always have the photographer or producer sign my contracts. They’re nothing fancy, but they state the general terms of the shoot. Again, nothing crazy, but it’s just to have something in writing on what we’re agreeing to do. If one of us cancels, there’s a deposit in place. So, having things like that in place, at least for me, makes a huge difference and it protects all parties involved, not just the model.

Another thing that I’d love to see improved within the adult industry is some of these pay sites. You know, like Clips4Sale and even OnlyFans and IWantClips. Their technology is lacking. I understand when it comes to credit card companies and the adult industry in general, but technology seems to slack a little bit compared to other industries. So, I’d love for modern-day technology to help optimize those platforms a bit, making them better and more user friendly.

Jim: So, what’s your long term on this? Are you looking to remain solo or possibly bring other people on board, and build something big, like the Violet Voss empire?

Violet: There are some things in the works to make this a long-term career path for myself. Some of those things will be private until further notice. But yeah, as far as modeling goes, I think you can only do that for so long, but I’ve got a long-term solution for me. I am staying in the industry. One thing that I’m considering is bringing on other people in a sort of agency or production company. I would like to think that could happen within the next five years or so.

Jim: You’ve already got a great looking website. I probably don’t have to tell you, but there’s a lot of people that would kill for your website.

Violet: Gee whiz, thanks! I’ve worked hard on that and am very happy with it.

Jim: Yeah, everyone needs to go check you out. Tons of beautiful photos, rates, contact information. It’s a gorgeous layout. So, you don’t have an agent?

Violet: No, I don’t have an agent. I do it all.

Jim: Okay, so how does all that work for you? It’s a lot, with self-managing, self-booking. Is that something that is enjoyable for you or is it like, “I’ll do it, but I really don’t like it.”

Violet: It’s not my favorite part of the job, but it must get done. Luckily, my husband helps me with a lot of it, you know, especially when I’m on photo shoots and we’re getting booking requests. You know, I simply can’t answer every request because I’m shooting. So, he’ll help me out a lot when I’m busy or in front of the camera. And with his help, it’s been very nice. But, having said that, I think I’ll be hiring an assistant sooner rather than later to help manage some of those administrative tasks.

Jim: But on some level it’s nice to have it under your control, so it doesn’t get out of control.

Violet: Absolutely. I love to have it under my control. And if I had the time to do all of it, I would. Unfortunately, the administrative tasks take up a lot of time. And so, there’s going to come a point where I’m going to have to choose, “Okay, do I want to spend all my time on the administrative tasks where I’m not really making money from those tasks? Or do I just need to have someone come on to help me with those so I can go out and make money doing what I do, which is in front of the camera.”

Jim: And there’s more to life than work. What’s something that you care deeply about? Something that you’re really involved with, or maybe give some time and love to help make it better.

Violet: I really enjoy spending time with friends and family and my dogs. I love animals and they are just something I care deeply about. I have volunteered at some local shelters. In so many other ways, I am just so grateful for everything and everyone that I have, and whenever I get the opportunity, helping others is a big thing for me. Seeing a smile from someone, even if I don’t know them personally, makes me smile too.

Jim: When you’re not working and you’re not caring about your animals and seeing friends and family, how many hours a day do you think you spend on social media?

Violet: You know, I’m on social media a lot for my work. So, it’s hard to distinguish, but just for personal enjoyment, probably about an hour per day. For work, it’s probably 4 or 5 hours per day.

Jim: Is there any platform or app that you really like that you spend a lot of time on, whether for work or just goofing off?

Violet: I really enjoy TikTok, you know, it just sucks me in. I will sit there and think that I’ve only spent ten minutes looking at videos, but in reality, I’ve been on there for an hour or more. It is so easy to lose time on TikTok. I’d say that’s my favorite right now.

Jim: Have you ever been kicked off a social media site?

Violet: Yes, I have been kicked off TikTok and Instagram for posting things that I went against “Community Guidelines.” So, I’ve had to redo my strategy on those sites.

Jim: Yeah, I’m on my second TikTok. My first one was actually doing pretty good, but they kicked me off. I guess there was a link to an adult site watermarked on a photo, but the photo was totally PG. They didn’t like the link.

Violet: Yeah, that sounds about right. I’ve had about 7 or 8 TikTok accounts that have been banned now.

Jim: But yeah, TikTok is fun. Um, I posted something today. I’m dying to go on there and check and see how it’s doing. Twitter or whatever we’re calling it now. I don’t know where Elon came up with the term X.

Violet: I have no idea, but it’s part of my business strategy, you know?

Jim: Yeah, they’re all fun. But you’re right. Especially for you and for those in our business, it’s an important part of advertising and networking, too.

Violet:Yes.

Jim: My final question– is there a question that I did not ask you that you wish I would have?

This is the part of the interview where a performer can tell me how bad I suck or what I did wrong. I’ve only had one instance of that happening, and it involved me being threatened with a dildo. Someday, I’ll tell the story. It’s hilarious.

Instead, Violet Voss was super sweet. She made me feel like I had accomplished my goal: Presenting her in a way that her fans and others in our little community could get to know her on a more personal level.

Violet: Not really. There were a good number of business-related questions related to my modeling career, but there were also a ton of personal questions. And I liked that. I feel like you know me more on a personal level, which I really don’t put out there. So, I appreciated the questions and enjoyed our conversation.

Jim: Yeah, and I didn’t ask what bra size you wear, right?

Violet: Yeah, that’s funny. I suppose people can get an idea by looking at the photos, right?

Jim: Absolutely. They’re fabulous. Thanks for talking with me today, Violet. We’re all going to look forward to seeing you at FetishCon in St. Petersburg Florida, on August 10th through 13th. You’re going to be live and in person roaming about, signing autographs, meeting different people, and meeting fans. So, I would encourage everybody to head over to FetishCon.com for tickets and hotel information. But in the meantime, head over to Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, OnlyFans, and all her links to give Violet Voss a follow and check out everything she has to offer. Thank you very much today, Violet.

Violet: Thank you so much. This was a lot of fun and I’m excited to meet everyone at FetishCon this year.